Trust me, I lost count on how many times I type and delete this post. I want to write an inspiring story so the reader can earn something from it but then I am not being me. So I decide to write what I want to write. Because I am done with all expectation towards me. I probably will laugh and feel so silly in ten years later when I read this but yeah we all do the same thing on what we wrote ten years ago and it will go on and on forever. So here we go.. Lately one of my ex boyfriend *doh* send me the link about how he thought about me when we were together. He said I was kind of a visioner person. So here is the thing. I was around 19 or 20 when I was with him. we're just college students with no income except from our parents. But I was bravely asked him to have a saving together eventhough we were not sure what it was for. Well probably we thought about marriage? Duh! so funny and silly considering how wreckless we were at that time. But I just thought saving our money together would be beneficial so we did it. After months we finally broke up and we shared the money and I told "you didn't loss that much by having me as your girlfriend, once we break up you also get the money" or in bahasa "Lo ga rugi-rugi banget kan pacaran ama gue? putus aja dapet duit". Well kind of. So, after years I found somebody else and we did the same thing except the amount was much higher because we both have job so we can save up more and also we thought we were mature enough to prepare for marriage. So the purpose was clear, we save together for marriage cost ( It's freaking expensive to have a decent reception in Jakarta). We finally opened a bank account on behalf his name and it was a saving plan so we MUST save some certain amount of money in the certain date each month for a year. But things didn't work out as we hoped and planned. We broke up after almost three years relationship and 10 months having the saving plan together. It means there were 2 months away for us till we can get the money back or if we wanted to get it before the due time we would get pinalty and it cost lots of money so we decided to keep it eventough our comunication is limitted and it was hard months to lose somebody you love the most for years and we can't really let him go due to this kind of unfinished business. Trust me, it was killing me.Losing him and feeling afraid if he would run away with my money. But lucky me, he was responsible to what we agreed on so we shared the money equally after the due time . Yes it was hurt so bad to remember maybe if we didn't break up the money woud be use for what we planned for and now I will be his wife *Aww* but at least the tiring, torturing, and tearing break up all paid by Singapore trip with my cousin using the "gono-gini" money. LOL So, based on my story do you think I am agreed on saving money together before marriage or not? Find out in the next chapter. *Duh
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AuthorA learner, kids lover, Social media enthusiast and Teh Kotak Lover Archives
January 2023
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